Knock The Chill Off

Knock The Chill Off

Lately the temperatures have constantly fluctuated in Raleigh, NC, and you really have to put forth an effort to think about how to dress due to the constant changes.   For days when it’s chilly outside but you still need to cover up, I’ve found the perfect versatile piece. I’m currently obsessed with my long waistcoat.  Not only are these vests functional and perfect for layering without the bulk, they also add shape and structure to any look.  The flexibility is endless!  Although I’m wearing my vest with a skirt, they also look great with boyfriend jeans or slacks.  I also love the fact that these vests make you look taller by elongating your torso. During times like now when the weather is unstable, these vests can be a life saver.  They will also transition well into spring.  Although I’ve been layering mine lately with shirts and sweaters to kick the chill off, I definitely plan to ditch the fur collar and rock it sleeveless soon. Photography by:  Em Grey Photography Shop a similar look below: //Zara Long Waistcoat with Faux Fur Collar// (Similar here: Evans Black Fur Collar Waistcoat) //Anne Klein Houndstooth Skirt // (Similar here: MANGO Houndstooth Pencil Skirt) //Stuart Weitzman Suede Boots // (Similar here: Christian Louboutin Suede Fierce Platform Boots)   Love, The Ultimate...
Raleigh Blog Society Galentine’s Blogger Brunch

Raleigh Blog Society Galentine’s Blogger Brunch

Last year I hosted a Girls Night In Valentine’s Day Party at my home with close friends.  It was my first time ever participating in an organized Valentine’s Day event with other women, and needless to say it was a huge success. This year, when I received an invitation from Raleigh Blog Society to attend the second annual Galentine’s Blogger Brunch, I was beyond excited about the opportunity to spend one of my favorite times of the year with my girls.   I’d be a fool to not want to spend a Sunday morning with the beautiful Raleigh Blog Society. I knew it was going to be fun but I honestly didn’t know exactly what to expect since it was my first year attending.  To sum it up into two words, I’d say it was “beyond fabulous”! What made this event so fabulous is first of all, the brunch was held at the beautiful Frill Clothing.  Yes I’m talking about the same Frill that made a deal on Shark Tank.  If you’re not familiar, Frill primarily targets sorority women who are trying to purchase stylish, more affordable outfits for recruitment, and has also expanded into jewelry, accessories and home decor. Second, I was beyond excited to see everyone again.  It had been almost three months since I’d seen most of the group and even longer for a few of the girls.  Being in the presence of such a widely talented and stylish group of women is always extremely inspiring, uplifting and powerful.  Everyone’s blog is unique, and I enjoy the camaraderie on so many levels. The bloggers in attendance...
Recapping the 15th Annual African American Cultural Celebration

Recapping the 15th Annual African American Cultural Celebration

I can’t believe it’s nearly the middle of February!  Where has the month gone? Right before the month began, I kicked off Black History Month by attending the 15th Annual African American Cultural Celebration on January 30th.  This free event was held at the NC Museum of History in downtown Raleigh, and this years theme was Civil Rights—March On!. Although I’ve been a Raleigh native for 19 years, this was my first year attending.  With over 75 musicians, storytellers, dancers, authors, artists, chefs, and more, it was sure to be an exciting day. One of the true highlights of my day was visiting the “Made Especially For You By Willie Kay” exhibit.  Willie Otey Kay was queen of Raleigh fashion for decades, who surpassed racial boundaries to create a successful business.  I learned so much about this stylist who had been designing and making dresses for brides, proms and debutantes from all over the State.  It was such a treat to see her handcrafted dresses up close.  Read more about her story here: NC Museum of History and The News & Observer In summary, this event was extremely fun and educational for the entire family.  It was a perfect start to Black History Month and phenomenal way to celebrate African American heritage and culture.  I’m already looking forward to next year’s event! Love, The Ultimate...
A Salute to Style

A Salute to Style

I took charge of my wardrobe with this military jacket I picked up over the holidays while shopping.  I’m in love with the deep rich red, gold and black combination along with button adornment.  For fun, I paired it with my ripped jeans, leo logo clutch and threw in my leopard pumps to mix it up.  This look will hopefully provide inspiration. While this blog post is about style and having fun with it, I take the military very seriously.  Being a veteran and having served in the military for 8 years, I have the utmost respect for my fellow veterans, and those who are currently serving.  My heart is happy any chance I get to wear something that remind me of the sacrifices those have made.  With that said, I take this opportunity to say a heartfelt thank you to our military! Photography by:  Em Grey Photography //Ralph Lauren French Terry Officer’s Jacket// (Ralph Lauren Denim & Supply) Similar here //Kayla Skinny Jeans// (Ralph Lauren Denim & Supply) //New York Lotti Leopard-Print Calf Leather Pump// (Kate Spade) Similar here or here //Hayden Panettiere Signed Clutch// (Dooney & Bourke) Thrifted Love, The Ultimate...
She Wears The Pants

She Wears The Pants

“I like being a woman, even in a man’s world.  After all, men can’t wear dresses, but we can wear the pants.” – Whitney Houston I simply love the flexibility and option of wearing dresses or pants.  When I want to feel feminine I can pull out my tulle skirts to be as as girly as I want.  On the other hand when I want to feel bold and authoritative, I break out my trousers.  When I was very young, I wasn’t allowed to wear trousers for religious reasons, so I can really appreciate being able to wear them now. I was surprised to learn in general that trousers weren’t always acceptable for women to wear.  Below are some interesting facts I found on Wikipedia about women wearing trousers. In 1919, Luisa Capetillo challenged the mainstream society by becoming the first woman in Puerto Rico to wear trousers in public. She was sent to jail for what was then considered to be a “crime”, but the judge later dropped the charges against her. Starting in the 1920s and 30s, women increasingly wore trousers as leisurewear, and in the early 20th century female pilots and other working women often wore trousers. Katharine Hepburn as well as other actresses were often photographed in trousers from the 1930s. During World War II, women working in industrial work in war service wore their husbands’ (suitably altered) trousers, and in the post-war era trousers were still common casual wear for gardening, socialising, and other leisure pursuits. In the 1960s, André Courrèges introduced jeans for women, leading to the era of designer jeans. In 1969...